The thing that’s missing from your anti-aging routine

No one talks about it. Plus, a very wise podcast, a must-read book, and a summer salad to make now.

“The thing no one tells you about aging is that the shape of your face completely starts to change,” a friend recently marveled over lunch. “I mean, you hear about wrinkles and gray hair, but never about that.” 

I know what she means. Ever since turning 40 a couple of years ago, I’ve noticed it, too: my face becoming longer and less round. My cheekbones …